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name: legacy-letter
description: "Write a letter to the people you love, to be read later — the things you'd want them to know, the stories only you hold, the permission and the love that outlive you. Use when someone says 'help me write a letter to my kids/partner', 'legacy letter', 'ethical will', 'something for them to have when I'm gone', or is facing illness, aging, deployment, or simply wants to. Produces a warm, true letter in the writer's own voice — one to each person, or one to all — plus a light plan for when and how it's found. An emotional-legacy tool, not legal (it is not a will)."
homepage: https://mohitagw15856.github.io/pm-claude-skills/skill/legacy-letter.html
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# Legacy Letter Skill

A will distributes your things; a legacy letter gives your people the things a will
can't — the stories only you remember, what you were proud of, what you're sorry
for, the specific reasons you loved them, and the permission to be okay. Also called
an ethical will, it's one of the most treasured objects a family can hold, and most
people mean to write one and never do because the blank page is too heavy. This skill
makes it doable: it interviews gently, finds the true and specific things (not
Hallmark platitudes), and shapes them into a letter that sounds unmistakably like the
writer — because the voice is the gift.

## What This Skill Produces

- A **legacy letter** in the writer's real voice — one per person, or one to all,
  their choice — built from true, specific memories and feelings, not generic
  sentiment
- A **story harvest**: the specific moments, sayings, and lessons surfaced in the
  interview, usable in the letter and beyond
- The **hard-but-healing inclusions** where wanted: the apology, the permission to
  grieve and then live, the blessing on choices the writer won't be there for
- A **light plan** for when/how it's read (with the will, on a date, given now) — and
  the note that it can be revised anytime; this is a living document, not a final one

## Required Inputs

Ask for (if not already provided):
- Who it's for (each person, or everyone) and roughly how old they are / will be
  when they read it
- What prompted it (illness, aging, a new baby, deployment, or simply wanting to) —
  gently, and only as much as they offer
- The raw material: a few real memories, a value they want to pass on, something
  they're proud of or sorry for, what they'd say if they had one more conversation
- Voice sample: how they actually talk (paste a message, or just answer the
  interview naturally — the skill mirrors their cadence)

## Framework

1. **Interview for the specific, not the summary.** "I love you and I'm proud of you"
   is true and forgettable; "the way you refused to quit that ridiculous science
   project at 2am — that stubbornness is going to carry you" is unforgettable. The
   skill draws out concrete moments, exact sayings, the small true things. Specificity
   is what makes a reader feel *seen* years later.
2. **Write in their voice, not a greeting card.** Mirror the writer's real cadence,
   including their humor, their bluntness, their particular words. A legacy letter
   that sounds like a template comforts no one; one that sounds like the person is
   like hearing them again. No inflated funeral-prose — earned warmth only.
3. **Include the hard things, if they want to.** The most healing letters often hold
   an apology, a permission ("please don't stay sad — go live"), or a blessing on a
   future the writer won't see (marry them, take the job, be happy). The skill offers
   these gently and never forces them; it also never invents feelings the writer
   didn't express.
4. **Match the letter to the reader's age and moment.** A letter a child reads at 8
   differs from the one they read at 30. If it's for a future moment, the skill can
   help write to who they'll be, or suggest a short set the writer adds to over time.
5. **Plan the finding, keep it living.** A letter no one finds is a tragedy on top of
   a tragedy. Light plan: where it's kept (with the will, told to a trusted person, or
   given directly), when it's meant to be read, and the standing invitation to revise
   it — people write these and live years more; it should grow with them.

## Output Format

```
## The letter(s)
[In the writer's own voice — one per person or one to all. True, specific, warm.
Hard-but-healing lines included only where the writer wanted them.]

## Stories we surfaced (yours to keep and reuse)
[The specific memories/sayings/lessons the interview found]

## When and how it's found
[Where it lives · when it's read · who's told · "revise it anytime — it's living"]
```

## Quality Checks

- [ ] The letter is built from specific, true memories and feelings — zero generic
      "I'm so proud" filler standing alone
- [ ] It sounds like the writer (their cadence, humor, words), not a greeting card or
      funeral speech
- [ ] Any apology/permission/blessing came from the writer, never invented by the skill
- [ ] It's pitched to the reader's actual age/moment, especially if read in the future
- [ ] There's a plan for it to be found, and it's framed as revisable/living

## Anti-Patterns

- [ ] Do not write in inflated funeral prose or platitudes — specificity and the real
      voice are the entire value
- [ ] Do not invent memories, feelings, or apologies the writer didn't give — this is
      their letter, sacred and true; the skill is a scribe, not an author
- [ ] Do not treat this as a will — it carries no legal weight; if the writer starts
      assigning assets, gently route them to [[estate-planning-kit]]
- [ ] Do not push the hard inclusions; offer, honor a no, and never coerce an apology
      or a confession
- [ ] Do not rush a grieving or frightened writer — the interview is gentle, paced to
      them, and it's fine to write it in pieces over time

## Related

[[digital-death-plan]] and [[estate-planning-kit]] for the practical legacy;
[[grief-admin]] for the people who receive it; [[the-time-capsule]] is the
professional-decisions cousin; [[personal-bio]] shares the voice-mining craft.