Co-parenting communication goes wrong when old relationship dynamics leak into logistics — a simple scheduling text becomes a fight. This drafts messages that stay businesslike and child-centered: brief, factual, and firm, with the emotional bait stripped out, so you address the actual issue (schedule, expense, decision) without reigniting conflict — and keep a clean record while you're at it.
Co Parenting Messages is a community-contributed Claude Code skill in the business-ops sub-category. It ships as a SKILL.md file that Claude Code auto-discovers under ~/.claude/skills/co-parenting-messages/ and loads when your prompt matches the skill's trigger.
When to invoke it: Use when asked to write a message to my co-parent, respond to my ex about the kids, co-parenting communication help, or how to reply without a fight. Produces a message drafted in a neutral, child-centered tone (the 'BIFF'-style brief/informative/friendly/firm approach), the bait removed, a clear ask or answer, and a note on documentation — steering away from anything that escalates.
The Co Parenting Messages Claude Code skill is built for Claude Code users and developers across all disciplines looking for general-purpose AI assistance. It's part of ClaudSkills (also referred to as Claude Skills or Claude Code Skills) — the open community-curated registry of 177,000+ SKILL.md files for Anthropic's Claude Code agent and the wider Claude ecosystem (Claude API, Claude Agent SDK).
mkdir -p ~/.claude/skills/co-parenting-messages curl -L https://claudskills.com/skills/co-parenting-messages/SKILL.md \ -o ~/.claude/skills/co-parenting-messages/SKILL.md
Or just download SKILL.md directly and drop it into ~/.claude/skills/co-parenting-messages/. Claude Code auto-discovers it on next session.
Skills live at ~/.claude/skills/co-parenting-messages/SKILL.md on macOS/Linux, or %USERPROFILE%\.claude\skills\co-parenting-messages\SKILL.md on Windows. See the full install guide for step-by-step instructions.
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SKILL.md from the source repository to ~/.claude/skills/co-parenting-messages/SKILL.md and restart Claude Code. Both flows are detailed at claudskills.com/install/.SKILL.md file that lives under ~/.claude/skills/<name>/ and tells the Claude Code CLI agent how to perform a specific task (instructions, prompts, allowed tools). Skills are auto-discovered at session start. Co Parenting Messages is one of 67,000+ skills indexed in the open ClaudSkills catalog, classified under the General category. Learn more at /learn/what-is-a-claude-skill/.If you reference this skill in a blog post, paper, or documentation, you can cite it as:
@misc{co-parenting-messages-2026,
author = {mohitagw15856},
title = {Co Parenting Messages [Claude Code skill]},
year = {2026},
publisher = {ClaudSkills},
url = {https://claudskills.com/skills/co-parenting-messages/}
}Grade A · scanned 2026-08-06 — free static scan against the OWASP Agentic Skills Top 10.
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