Most people botch hard feedback two ways: they soften it until the point disappears (kind but useless), or they deliver it bluntly and defensively (clear but wounding). The skill is doing both at once — direct and caring. This helps you pin down the specific thing to say, structure it so it lands and helps, and handle their reaction — so the person leaves clear on what to change and still intact.
Give Hard Feedback Kindly is a community-contributed Claude Code skill in the general-misc sub-category. It ships as a SKILL.md file that Claude Code auto-discovers under ~/.claude/skills/give-hard-feedback-kindly/ and loads when your prompt matches the skill's trigger.
When to invoke it: Use when asked how do I give hard feedback, tell someone something difficult, address a problem with someone, or have a tough conversation about their [work/behavior]. Produces a read on what you actually need to say (the specific behavior and its impact, not a vague vibe), a structure that's direct and kind at once, the exact opening and words, how to invite their side and land on a path forward, and the traps (sandwiching it away, going vague, making it about character).
The Give Hard Feedback Kindly Claude Code skill is built for Claude Code users and developers across all disciplines looking for general-purpose AI assistance. It's part of ClaudSkills (also referred to as Claude Skills or Claude Code Skills) — the open community-curated registry of 178,000+ SKILL.md files for Anthropic's Claude Code agent and the wider Claude ecosystem (Claude API, Claude Agent SDK).
mkdir -p ~/.claude/skills/give-hard-feedback-kindly curl -L https://claudskills.com/skills/give-hard-feedback-kindly/SKILL.md \ -o ~/.claude/skills/give-hard-feedback-kindly/SKILL.md
Or just download SKILL.md directly and drop it into ~/.claude/skills/give-hard-feedback-kindly/. Claude Code auto-discovers it on next session.
Skills live at ~/.claude/skills/give-hard-feedback-kindly/SKILL.md on macOS/Linux, or %USERPROFILE%\.claude\skills\give-hard-feedback-kindly\SKILL.md on Windows. See the full install guide for step-by-step instructions.
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SKILL.md from the source repository to ~/.claude/skills/give-hard-feedback-kindly/SKILL.md and restart Claude Code. Both flows are detailed at claudskills.com/install/.SKILL.md file that lives under ~/.claude/skills/<name>/ and tells the Claude Code CLI agent how to perform a specific task (instructions, prompts, allowed tools). Skills are auto-discovered at session start. Give Hard Feedback Kindly is one of 67,000+ skills indexed in the open ClaudSkills catalog, classified under the General category. Learn more at /learn/what-is-a-claude-skill/.If you reference this skill in a blog post, paper, or documentation, you can cite it as:
@misc{give-hard-feedback-kindly-2026,
author = {mohitagw15856},
title = {Give Hard Feedback Kindly [Claude Code skill]},
year = {2026},
publisher = {ClaudSkills},
url = {https://claudskills.com/skills/give-hard-feedback-kindly/}
}Grade A · scanned 2026-08-07 — free static scan against the OWASP Agentic Skills Top 10.
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